Can’t believe we are still homeless!

Well, six more weeks have gone by and we still do not have a home. It is an uncomfortable place to be. We have been attending our home ward for so long, but over the last six weeks I am feeling more and more like we don’t belong there. We are thinking of moving our records here to my Mother-in-laws ward, but it will be for such a short time, I just don’t know if I want to do that. It’s really a disconcerting feeling and more and more I find myself relying on the Lord to give me patience and putting our new home into his hands because it’s impossible to have any control over it.

We did put an offer on a house in South Jordan. It’s a short sale and we are the presenting offer. It’s on the high end of our price range and needs some work but it is big enough and the best part is that it’s on over an acre of land! Here’s the house. It’s not super pretty but it has potential. http://bestrealestateinutah.com/fine/real/estate/home_view/1077708/mlsname/WFRMLS

Our offer went in March 13th and on Monday we got word that the bank had already looked at it but that the owners had never cleared the bankruptcy on it! We are hoping they take care of that fast. For a short sale, to get the paperwork seen in a month is a miracle! We are hoping we will know for sure by the end of April. In the meantime we are still looking around and viewing homes that might work.

And just for fun. Here’s my sweet little Eloise from her latest model shoot for Un Petite Chou

Homeless!

Well folks, it’s official. We have finally sold our home! After 3 months on the market we finally got an offer. Amusingly enough we ended up getting a second offer as well. We went with the first offer mostly because the second offer was a flipper and the first was a young family. I am so excited for them! It seems like such a short time ago that we were moving into our home with our two young boys. Xander was 4.5 at the time and Sullivan was nearly two. I was still nursing both of them! Now they are 16 and 13 and I can’t even believe how fast the time has gone.

The new owners signed the papers on Thursday and our home is now officially their home. I wish them many wonderful and amazing memories there!

Problematically we are not sure what to do though because we can’t find a home that will fit what we need. So we are going to be living with Dave’s mom a bit longer until we can find, purchase and move into a new home. It is such a strange feeling after owning a home for 11.5 years to not own one. It’s like a wierd kind of limbo. We are going to continue attending church at our West Jordan ward because it will be easier on the kids to only have one transition. I hope that’s not too wierd when the new owners move in.

I am trying to be patient but I am so stinkin’ excited to find out where we will end up! I have lots of hope that we will find the perfect home for us and it will be where we need to and are supposed to be.

February 28, 2012 - 8:21 pm Elizabeth Gerber - I'm so happy I found your blog! We are looking into adopting from India and I was wondering if you had any advice to offer. We live in Eagle Mountain Ut...looks like you live in Utah too? If you don't mind me asking. Which adoption agency did you use? I hope I'm not prying. I just feel so drawn to adopt from India(not sure why) but I don't know where to start. Thanks Elizabeth lizezgerb@gmail.com

SIXTEEN!

I can’t believe I’m the mother of a 16 year old! It seems like just yesterday that he was a little boy reading me stories sitting on my lap. We have an amazing relationship. He hugs me all the time and tells me he loves me. I’m so proud to be his mother and so excited for his future.

WORDS- a few words about 2011

My goodness it has been a crazy wonderful year! When I decided to do a photo 3.6.5. last year I had no idea how difficult it might be. It was very hard to remember to keep the camera handy every day and it was even harder to keep the photos updated on my blog. I don’t think I’ll be doing another project like this for a while. I hated that I didn’t write many words all year. So I just thought it might be fun to do a quick recap of all the adventures we’ve had this year.

January- Most of January was spent madly taking pictures of my sister and her fiancee. They got engaged on Christmas Even and the big day was January 28th! It was crazy just getting the pictures done in time, let alone all the wedding planning. But everything turned out wonderful and I photographed the big day for her. I was very self concious because my weight, after having Lulu, had gotten seriously out of control. At the end of 2010 I weighed in at an incredibly embarrassing 334lbs. I started saying personal positive affirmations every morning.

Also after Lulu’s 6 month check up it became apparent that she had stopped growing, just like Virginia did. This time I had to admit that it was my milk that was the culprit. It’s so sad for me because before my girls I never had any problems breastfeeding. I didn’t want to give her any formula so I put out a PSA on facebook asking if anyone had any breastmilk that they could donate and I ended up with thousands of ounces! I was so grateful that so many women were able to help. I also started a gluten free, sugar free, dairy free diet to try and kill the thrush/yeast that we were struggling with because someone mentioned to me that yeast can inhibit milk supply. I lost 14 lbs the first week on the diet.

February- Xander turned 15! Oliver earned his wolf badge and recieved it at the Blue & Gold banquet. Oliver put Eloise, 7 months, on the kitchen table from which she fell and cracked her skull. It was scary but luckily she healed fine with no problems. I lost 12 more lbs in February on the yeast cleanse diet. It didn’t help that much with my milk supply but I loved the weight loss so I kept going with it.

March- Went to the Thomas Jefferson Education Family Ball by TJEd Marketplace. Rani competed on a clogging team at the Kickoff Classic and the Dixie Spectacular. Dave and I got the bug to move again and we started fixing up the house.  I lost 8 lbs in march.

April- Eloise stood up for the first time. Oliver took 2nd place in the pinewood derby. Easter was beautiful! Xander got the part of Mr. Gribsby in the school play, The Importance of Being Earnest. I lost 5 lbs in April, still on the yeast cleanse diet.

May- Eloise took her first steps at 10 months old! The earliest of all of my seven children. Virginia turned 3 and had an Alice in Wonderland birthday party! She was beautiful! Xander performed in the Importance of Being Earnest and he was so good! Oliver turned 9. I lost 5 lbs.

June- Moved in with Dave’s mom so that we can get our house on the market. Kids had their dance recital. I lost 5lbs!

July- Dave and I celebrated our 17th wedding anniversary. Eloise turned ONE! Lost our dog and found her at the animal shelter. Sully played “I’m a Believer” with a band for his piano recital and then two weeks later started taking piano from a new teacher. Eloise got her ears pierced. Rani turned 10! We worked on the house a lot and spent a lot of time at Lagoon. I lost 5 lbs

August- Got my pictures on the cover of the movie Stand Strong. Started a protein shake diet with hubby. Virginia started pre-school. Xander started his Sophomore year. Lost 9lbs in August.

September- Sullivan turned 13 and Finneas turned 6. We worked on the house. A LOT. I lost 8lbs.

October- The kids got pink eye. Photographed the cutest baby photo contest for the Spookapalooza. Our HOUSE WENT ON THE MARKET! I lost 10 lbs! We did a camelot theme for Halloween and I never got any pictures. :-(

November- Got my hair cut super short. I did a LOT of family photo sessions and two weddings. Xander performed as Asher in Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat and he was AMAZING! Rani took firsts in all her solos at her first clogging competition of the season. I turned 37. I lost 3 lbs.

December- I went rollerskating with Rani. The kids performed in the Nutcracker. Rani was a Bon Bon and Ollie was a Big Mouse. I took Xander, Rani and Ollie to the Tabernacle Choir Christmas Concert. I photographed several families and one wedding. We still continue to live with my MIL and hope to sell our home soon. We have had over 60 showings and it has been so depressing. I am excited for this new year and can’t wait to see what will happen!

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Family photos by Kris Harding Doman at KD Portraits

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Christmas Morning!

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Christmas Eve PJs!

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Christmas Even PJs!

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Opening our Christmas Even pajamas.

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Ahrana played Mary in our live Nativity this year.

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Eloise played the lamb in our live Nativity on Christmas Eve

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